Me (43) and my bf (48) are really wanting to visit the club for some mmf fun... probably mainly just me and another man fucking (bf likes to watch) but my bf might join in depending on how things flow... not really into massively dominant guys, but do like guys who know what they want, like oral, anal, toys, the usual... we've done this before but not in a club environment, can anyone advise what night is best to visit for what we're after?